The List
So this is the list of stuff I’ve done, want to do, or don’t want to do. I’m a blank slate, kinda new, but eager to learn. Really though, it’s not about a checklist. I don’t particularly think to myself “I’m going to wear a gag so I can cross it off the list.” In my ideal world, a session is creative, it’s complex, it explores many facets of power-exchange, submission and domination. It could be a role play, it could be a long list of things I have to do for the Master before he’ll let me in the door. The more creative, the better, so for me, this is more a menu of possibilities, rather than a check list of things to do.
| ACTIVITY | DONE IT? | INTEREST | THOUGHTS |
|---|---|---|---|
| Bondage | A little | Lots | I bought rope a while back, but haven’t done anything with it. |
| Servitude, Slavery, Playing the butler | No | Absolutely | A complex scene would be ideal; this is one I’d probably grow into |
| Cock & Ball Torture | Only a Little | Yes | This could take some getting used to. |
| Watersports | A little | Willing | Depends on the scene |
| Candles/Wax | Yes | Yes, Please!! | |
| Clamps/Clothespins | A little | Yes | |
| Nipple play/torture | Yes | Yes | Working my nips hard can make me crumple |
| Flogging | Yes | Yes | Recently tried it, rather enjoyed it |
| Paddles / Spanking | No | Yes | |
| Caning | No | By your command | I don’t <i>like</i> the idea of anything breaking the skin, but I can see myself wanting more intense training. Just remember, I’m a screamer. |
| Medical Play | No | Wiling | I like the idea of a complex scene with inspection, testing, induction |
| Prisoner Play | No | Wiling | |
| Role Play – other / any | No | Wiling | Open to ideas. I like creative play, but I would need to know ahead of time to mentally prep |
| Electro-stim | No | Yes | Warning, I’m a screamer |
| Things that pinch & poke | No | Yes | As part of a complex scene like Medical or Prisoner play |
| Sensory deprivation | No | Yes | |
| Hoods / Blindfolds | No | Yes | |
| Gags | No | Yes | |
| Gas Masks | No | Yes | |
| Edging / milking (prolonged) | No | Yes | It doesn’t take much to make me cum, so I don’t know how long I’d last |
| Chastity (mental or device) | No | Yes | A device would need some negotiation |
| Temperature play | No | Yes | Complex, I know. I love steam rooms and saunas. |
| Ben-gay | By Myself | Up to you. | I put some on my cock as a teen, and it was rather awful. If you insist, who am I to say no? |
| Forced enema | No | Willing | |
| Cigars / pipes | Not as play | Enjoyable | I smoke on occasion, but haven’t yet incorporated it as play. Not particularly into getting burned. |
| Fire play (rubbing alcohol) | No | Very Intrigued | Just remember I’m hairy … would hope you know what you’re doing |
| Ass toys | Vanilla | Yes | Stretch me, train me, use me, just be safe (a condom never a bad thing). My ass is super-tight. |
| Mind games | No | Yes, Please! | Not sure what this really could mean, so up for anything |
| Complex instructions & hoops to jump through | No | Yes | Like I said, I like more creative/complex play |
| Humiliation | No | Yes | This is where you’ll really push my mentally. |
| Diaper play | No | Willing | |
| Mummification | No | Yes | |
| Leather | Sorta | Yes | I like it in general, and want to get gear, but don’t get off on it alone. Instead, I get off on the guy inside the leather, using me. |
| Shaving | No | Willing | |
| Feet / Boot licking | No | Willing | I will as part of serving, but it’s just not a fetish |
| Hypnosis | No | Yes | |
| Cages | No | Yes | |
| Groups / orgies | Vanilla | You bectha | My partner and I have threesomes and group sex on occasion, but I’ve never done it with any sort of kink. |
| Outdoors | No | Yes | It would need to be pretty specific, like, in the woods or someplace secluded. |
| Sounding | No | Willing | Would take some convincing |
| Zentai / rubber / spandex | No | Yes | Not my thing by itself but anything to please Sir |
| Beating / punching | Yes | By your command | This stuff is more mental for me, so I don’t really get into getting beat for the sake of it. But as part of play, yeah sure. |
| Figging | No | Very Intrigued | |
| Breath control / chocking | A little | Willing | Requires trust and negotiation |
| Spitting | A little | Yes | Fine in a scene as a humiliation thing. |
| Food | No | Go for it | I like it weird and kinky, so up for whatever. |
Hard Limits – Things I Won’t or Can’t Do
Fisting, blood, scat, barebacking/breeding, permanent marks or skin-penetration, drugs.
Cock up the ass takes trust and understanding, but not a hard limit.
