Bondage

I would love to get tied up and put at the mercy of a Dom. I’ve been tied up once – with some thin rope spread eagle on a hotel bed while candle wax was dripped on me for every wrong answer in a trivia game. I got a lot of wrong answers. Something about searing hot wax muddled my brain. Go figure.

But I want to try it more. I want to try stress positions, to be tied up in weird ways, to be abused while at someone else’s mercy. I want to try different kinds of ropes, I want to try intricate patterns. Some rope work is just downright gorgeous. But its not limited to rope. Handcuffs, shackles, cages, dungeons, straps, straightjackets, and mummification are all on my to-do list.

My only real hang-up is being able to trust a Dom to be tied up. Once tied, you truly are at their mercy and I’ve never given up that level of control. Of course, I could also just go to the gay NY Bondage Club. Maybe someday I’ll work up the nerve.

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