About Me
I’m a 28 year old guy from Denver, CO. I’ve been on a life-long exploration of my darker side, of bondage and discipline, pain and pleasure, service and slavery. I have my life together – I’m self-employed, I have a good life, I’m a bit of a control freak. But I’m also service-oriented, and I long to have control taken away from me and forced to do the bidding of a strong Dom.
This has been a part of my psyche for as long as I can remember. Even before I knew what masturbation was, my earliest fantasies were about kidnap and torture. I imagined being taken, chained up, beaten, auctioned off, forced to serve, forced to submit. With other neighborhood kids I played “school” and “house,” and one time we tried playing “torture chamber.”
But I’ve never done anything about it. As a teenager I logged onto chatrooms and did what I was told. I experimented with a little pain, and my porn collection grew. But as an adult I’ve done very little. But this is part of who I am, and it’s part of what I need sexually, so I’m starting to explore it more.
This blog is a place for me to explore my fantasies and maybe find others who share these interests. None of my friends know this about me, none of them are remotely into it. I’m up for play partners, but also up for getting to know other kinksters.
About Rook the Person
I’m shy, I’m mild-mannered. I prefer to listen than to talk, to think than to party. I enjoy a glass of wine, a good book, the theatre, a move+cuddle at home, an occasional good pipe or cigar, and an evening of board games and friends. I enjoy cooking and entertaining. I love to travel, and take any opportunity to go somewhere new or hop on a plane for work. I’m a nerd – I work in technology, love sci-fi & have a sweet spot for Star Trek, a bit of an Apple fan, and generally love to create things that go whiz bang.
I’m average height. Brown hair. A well-kept beard. I’m a bear – moderately hairy and am a bigger guy – but I work out daily and a believe in fitness and nutrition, and am getting fitter every day.
The Hubster
I’ve been with my better half for 6 years and he’s my love, my passion, and my world. We talk about everything, and he knows all about my kinky side. He’s a vanilla top, and doesn’t find domination or kink appealing for himself. But he knows this is something I want to explore, he knows this is a part of who I am, and he is super supportive and encourages me to explore it and allows me to play with others. Out of respect for him and us there are things that I can’t or won’t do. But I tell him everything, I don’t play without him knowing, and I’m not opposed to us becoming friends with a Dom(s). He may even want to watch, join, or learn for himself some day.
Looking For …
I’d love to get to know Doms/Sirs/Masters and other subs, either here in Eastern Colorado or anywhere. I’m also up for playing, either as a one-off or as a regular thing. I’m happy to set up a session for a particular activity, but my favorite kind of people are the most creative. The ones with imagination, the ones who can make a session more than just a hook up and something of an event. I’m a smart guy, I can handle complexity; it doesn’t have to be “come over, strip, bend over, take it, the end.”
As far as activities, check out The List for a scorecard of what I want to try some day.
Fair warning … I’m a screamer.
Out of respect for my partner there are some things I can’t do, so anyone I play with needs to understand that. If it’s a problem, that’s okay, we’ll just be friends. I rarely get fucked by cock. I always play very safe. I am drug, disease and HIV-free and expect all of us to get tested often and especially be up front about our statuses.
